Interracial Controversy

The big elephant in the room, the ticking time bomb, the heated debate, all these things that introduce the discussion of interraces. I agree that we all have our own preferences and shouldnt matter what the race of the relation is however every time i see it or read about it i dont agree with most of the opinions. Black men can date whoever the they please, but dont disrespect and downgrade the black queens. Jus because you mix blood and races doesnt always mean they pop out with pretty faces. No one is jealous of a mixed love in fact the problem i feel there is with white women with black men is how white women look at us disguested as if we didnt birth the man your standing there with. How dare black men lie and cheat and  abuse us as if to say we are trash. then give them the world. I seen black men out in fancy places and dressed fresh to impress them and ive seen them were sports shorts and a white tee with a condom in they're pocket while texting the next piece of prey cause not many take us seriously. they think alot of us are simply delirious and its hilarious cus they are the joke. When we dont give it up we are called sluts, and pushed aside and when white women dont give it up they are considered a prize. Its not about hate, or maybe for some it is cus alot of women are jealous of the perks they dont have without mixed kids. I think children are beautiful mixed or not but looks mean nothing, kids have to be taken care of regardless and not all mixed kids are the cutest. Alot of women feel we fight to be recognized and respected enough, and raising mixed child is rough. Especially with all the racism there already is and they dont know where they fit in and alot of misunderstandings surrounding theyre up bringing. Some black men refuse to date black women claiming we are too strong, to loud, to proud but no real man wants a woman he can walk over. I dont condone all the actions and attitudes of my fellow sisters but why cant we be proud of ourselves without being considered a doormat or disgrace when we are suppose to be the strongest race and the backbone to our men who abandon our women. White women try to portray us and to black men thats ok but to our women it rubs us the wrong way. All of our life we get looked down on and robbed of the pedestal we once stood on. And black men arent going to uphold black womem who will? Black women will do anything to please theyre men, thats why they dress with seduction, talk with passion, walk with pride and look aways from negativity with strength. We all have our own opinion but there is a difference in a oppinion, misconception and misunderstanding.