Loving Yourself In Black And White

Is the greatest reward to accept one’s fate as we bow unto the carnal pleasures of sin, we give our hearts and our minds unto another, the lending of our flesh, the gratification felt within the sole act.    

Is it better to love with your mind than with your body, giving unto another your deepest thoughts, which the subconscious covets, yet your heart refuses to adhere.        
   
Where the liaison of the mind becomes obsessional, the journeys to merge thoughts co-mingling, whereas the truth of the heart refuses to stop the course of the mind’s serendipity actions; rather it is found to be right, or an injustice behind the lewdness.      
   
In ancient days when love letters were such beautiful thoughts upon their written context, sprayed, with our sweetest perfume scent, and then whisked out of our hands to our awaiting lover.      
   
Bated breaths in anticipation to read the reflection of the heart it feels, the mind in silence it has wished upon.      
   
Eager eyes reading feverish thoughts, our wants, our hidden desires, heartbeats pounding in the replacement of pounding within our naked soul, leaving our hearts to bleed once the mind is no longer in sync to comply, to soar off its beautiful melodies.      
   
Is there a lost art of passion due to the emergence of technology, have we conditioned, and then surrendered our minds to have forgotten the heart rules the mind, once upon a time, where we showed less skin, more intellect ruled, chasten thoughts was in giving of the degree by the heart.      
   
In this day and in the new age of social engagement, whereas we no longer place our most sacred heart upon a pedestal, for the right person to capture it, cultivate it, and nourish the crown of our Charkas, the depth of our psyche when in the alliance of reaching the heart.      
   
Mentally making love in the dark, forsaking the appearance of human touch, words lavished in the role play of skin-to-skin contact, the absence of that which speak truth from our lips, could ever be measure in sound, it must be felt in vibration.    
   
Most would say if it isn’t broke don’t fix it, however, how do you even attempt to repair something that will never break, when all logical of the mind relates to the heart’s complexities, its passion, the circumvent of lust, the self-made concepts to love entirely with the mind, and delaying the emotional grandeur of the heart, however, this concept may appeal to a wide range of believers.        
   
In addition, it does venture into several sectors; you have your muse love, your crushes, your sacred Chakras, someone else feels too psychologically engaged, explore with sight unseen. the pause, of the human mind and the correlation when trying to upkeep its lack of emotional aggression, the misgiving will always leave the mind to wander and the heart to shadow, in the end, leaving the person, emotionally depleted, with vague thoughts one must contend with, a bad cloud of judgment of what could had been, which was never was, summing it up to only an alluring mind affair and your heart was only present for the voyage.    

As humans we tend to indulge by the mind, declare love by simply sharing our most trusted and sacred emotions, which over time become more lucid, more pronounced, whereas we learn to accept the fruitlessness of its bearing giving our mindset a false sense of love, in as much, it becomes the worth of our value.  

Creating the temperament ideology to engage in online sexual prowess, which does at times entail many variants of porn.  

Is that allusion of perversion a scapegoat for the mind, does the person’s inner connection lay within that mental comfort, if you guessed right, you are correct.    

In my field, of studying the mind, I have bear witness to several sessions of someone's mental cognitive awareness placed under psychoanalysis of the brain... a fascinating experience and be advised this person had a higher-than-average IQ.    

Therefore, this brings me to the summary of my conclusion, no matter what state the mind is stabilized in, it is your sole responsibility to maintain its potential growth, spiritually, emotionally, and mentally.  
 
As of late, I have noticed more citizens have become depressed and are making new patients apportionments for anxiety, or are showing signs of depressive behavior, and more anger.

School age teenagers are being seen for home outbursts, and disruptive behavior in the classroom, the ages are ranging from eleven to sixteen, and then a drop off, and the older adults.  

My profession is seeing these segments of the population, personally, I cannot break it down into any variables, as to why.

Those are just a few to name to take into consideration when thinking this could be some of the reasons society is becoming more aggressive.  

Mass shooting has been on the upraise, and some of these suspects have histories of Mental Health Illness.  

I am an advocate of Mental Health, Breast Cancer, and Childhood Cancer, if you suffer from any form of mental illness, and you have taken it upon yourself to seek counseling, I applaud you, with the most humbling respect.

It was once categorized as hearsay, looked upon as witchery, when villagers were having schizophrenia deviations.  

Mental Illness has come a long away through modern science, where the person can discuss openly his mental concerns, without any stigmatisms, no guilt, no shame.  

However, if you conceal behind your darkness and create the illusion of your mental hell, do not become chagrined because higher intellects do not want to become a member of it, and why is that, it is detrimental to the chemical balance of those beautiful neurotransmitters that fires to gives that boost to the energy of our two brain hemispheres, right and wrong, left and right.  

The mind needs to be pampered in a state of positive animation, it draws in that je ne sais quoi, that spiritual caress to your soul, with a truthful kiss, therefore navigate in the warmth of its generosity.  

When the intellect is deprived of cognitive awareness the creativity oxygen dies of its elevation, always remember that.    

Everyone must strive to get, and then keep the mind and heart in alliance, once blended, that spiritual awareness is a calming effect. You think it, you feel it, therefore, you become it.

Never lean toward negativity energy it has no light, it is dark, keep that light, the world is already daunting, and smile, and keep stepping forward, do not look backwards, it is not called the past for nothing, stay on your journey,  

Therefore, enjoy, inhale, exhale, find that good energy, smell some roses, bow to yourself, and walk away in spiritual grace, and never allow anyone to steal your joy.  

Be blessed on your revolving journey of self-mental care, or if you on taking some form of mood-altering prescribed medication(s) from a licensed physician or therapist may it keep you encouraged to be your best every day.  

Be good to yourself and to others, and until the core of our mind fuse, stay safe, live, laugh, and please love self above all.  

May peace guide you and love always cradle you.