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As an adult, have you ever experienced someone raising there voice at you for no apparent reason
I have, I have experienced such in several situations but throughout the years I've learned how to handle with a controlled conversation
Here's an example:
When I was a younger man in my 20s, I was quick with retaliation, ready to fight, or commit to an inflammed conversation
Now, as I've gotten older, I have realized that those decisions can inflict wounds mentally, forever damaging a realationship, and preventing the two from reaching a point of mutual understanding
beyond the age of 40, I have also learn how to take charge of the conversation
When someone feels the need to raise there voice towards you simply ask them:
HAVE YOU NOT EVER DONE WRONG, MADE AN UNINTENTIONAL MISTAKE, CAUSED NO HARM, OR DO YOU PRESUME TO BE AS PERFECT AS THE LORD ABOVE THAT SITS HIGH ON THE THRONE?
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