What is love? why do people why do people loose themselves looking for it? Hoping and dreaming. why is it that many people who think they have found it cry and hurt a lot? Pain is not love as some claim however without pain people think it's not love. I want to experience of love and share it not to be controlled or suffer over it. I want an unconditional understanding and comforting, respectful, loyal, fun and passionate love. Not disappointing, manipulating, heartbreaking, tear exhausting, physically abusing love.