When, why and how did marriage become so seconday, marriage is first before the baby. Its sad that soo many women have become lost, in the tides of life and sex. So many women, young girls and teens having babies, you ask them about marriage and they cant even grasp it. We gotten caught up in baby fever, empty sex and false promises. All over facebook, maury, media, instagram, ladies havin babies that aint married and dont give a damn. Im not putting down these fellow women just trying wipe the crust off your eyes, to help wake u up to a sad reality. We cant expect respect if we dont demand it or expect to be cherised if we give up our prize, c'mon ladies make them wait cus we are the prize. Marriage isnt as bad it seems these men confuse u to believe its just a dream. Why is he cheating? why hasnt he proposed to you? cus he committed but to more women then just you. Marriage is what we want and expect from commitment, so what if he runs off cus u didnt let him hit it. Are we scared to demand more cus we think we will be alone? a one parent house does not equal a home. I see many broken hearts and infants in the mist, he didnt want a relationship before the child so why are u pissed? We have worth, and a throne calling our name. Its time to stop praising babies and become whole families again.